It's Not What Happens to You,
It's What You Do About It...
BY W MITCHELL
| All of us are blessed
with inner strengths. It's just through circumstance, some
of us have to use them more than others
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Life is what you make it," some people say. But most of us don't
really believe that. "If only," you might say, "If only I weren't
so old. So broke. So saddled by my mortgage. If only I had less
pressure in my job. A family that understands me. There's nothing
I can do, Mitchell."
To which I simply say, "Look at me." My face looks like a badly
made leather quilt. It has literally made children chant, "Monster,
monster," as I pass by. I have no fingers. I cannot walk.
Fate struck twice
Furthermore, all of this did not happen at once. I did not have
the 'luxury' of one great, grand accident to get over. First, I
was burned nearly to a crisp. There is probably not one person in
a billion who has endured more physical pain than I have. Then,
four years later, in an entirely separate accident, I was paralyzed
from the waist down. The average person might call me the unluckiest
man alive.
But, what I hope to do in these articles - and in my speeches -
is to teach you not to think like the average person. To show you
that nothing, absolutely nothing is absolute. Your life is entirely
what you decide it is. The universe starts in your head and spreads
out into the world. Change what happens in your head and the universe
changes.
Really. I hope to be a touchstone for people, a route to a new
way of thinking. Symbols are potent. In America, the liberty bell
conjures the concept of freedom in a single image. In India, the
Taj Mahal shows us, at a glance, the depth and extravagance of human
love. In San Francisco, my adopted hometown, the Golden Gate bridge
is a testament to engineering ingenuity that speaks volumes.
What I want, is to be a symbol for you. With my scarred face, my
fingerless paws, my wheelchair - and real, genuine happiness in
my heart - I want to be your mental image of the power of the human
mind to transcend circumstances. As I say in my speeches and my
book, "It's not what happens to you, it's what you do about it."
When you feel you have met an insurmountable obstacle, I want you
to think of me. And, then say to yourself, "If he can be successful,
I can, too."
What kind of success are we talking about? I can rattle off my
resume if you like: millionaire, Mayor, member of many boards of
directors, environmental leader, media personality, political commentator,
commercial pilot, international public speaker, even river-rafter
and skydiver.
These may, or may not, be your measures of success, none the less,
I know that whatever you want, you can achieve it-just as I have.
You can because you are not that different from me, believe it or
not.
I don't have any special powers, any magical gift of birth that
has allowed me to create my own happiness in the face of tremendous
trials. I am no stronger or smarter than the average person. I am
a long way from ever being a 'saintly' guy. In fact, one of the
secrets I share is that being pushy, even obnoxious, at the right
times, has been crucial to my success.
The only difference between us, is that I had the good fortune
to learn a few important points along the way - both before and
after my injuries - that helped me immeasurably.
Inner strength
All of us are blessed with an inner strength, buried inside us
somewhere. It's just that most don't get the opportunity to use
it as much as I have.
I have a favorite quotation that I have thought about often and
it has helped me through some tough times. I'd like to share it
with you. It's from a man called, Albert Camus:
"In the midst of winter, I finally learned there was in me an invincible
summer."
Isn't that beautiful?
In subsequent issues of Corporate Trends, I'd like to share some
of the things I've learned. If they have kept me happy, imagine
what they will do for you. I have a great life. You can have a great
life, too!
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